Yes!! I didnтАЩt realize that could happen. I am happy you feel comfort that he is in heaven and the grave was just his body left behind. But I also recognize the sacredness of being able to visit that place in prayer, memories and thought and how this was a violation, not considering your wishes for your own fatherтАЩs grave. That is a double violation (by the cemetery and the other family members).
Im very sorry about this violation. My prayers are with you!
Thanks for caring.
Yes!! I didnтАЩt realize that could happen. I am happy you feel comfort that he is in heaven and the grave was just his body left behind. But I also recognize the sacredness of being able to visit that place in prayer, memories and thought and how this was a violation, not considering your wishes for your own fatherтАЩs grave. That is a double violation (by the cemetery and the other family members).
It's frightening, but we rejoice he didnt have to witness what we've been flooded with!